Tuesday, March 24

Coronovirus diary - 3 funerals

Life at a funeral parlour is never 'normal' but this is the month that Covid-19 arrived.


02/03/2020   Funeral 1:

A newly married man suddenly dead. Over the days prior to the funeral, his wife, his mother, his sister and some friends came to see him.  Many more friends and family flew in from his homeland to congregate on the day of the funeral, we held a long vigil in the parlour, everyone brought food and drink and hugged and sobbed, the chapel was crowded and so was the wake






12/03/2020   Funeral 2: 

A burial for a much-loved elderly lady, there were people of all ages at the funeral, but many of her dearest friends were frail and dared not take the risk.

The pastor normally asks the congregation to shake hands or embrace but this time he asked them to simply bow to each other.




22/03/2020   Funeral 3: 

A well respected journalist died peacefully at the the beginning of the month, a large, joyful celebration of his life was planned, throngs of friends, family and ex-colleagues would be there to pay tribute to this lion of a man.

And then it was cancelled.

the service was attended by his three adult children, each spaced out on separate pews

8 comments:

  1. It starts getting real.
    Kind of grateful my parents both went last year. I never thought I'd ever write such a thing.
    Sx

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  2. Stay safe, sugarpie. Everything that happened just weeks ago seems as if it happened last year. xoxo

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    1. It really is a dramatic shift in our universe isn't it? You stay safe too xxx

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  3. '''''''things are becoming more and more surreal. Facebook is getting nastier, the blogosphere still has moments of enchantment and humour.

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    1. sure is ... enjoying the humour, not the rest xxx

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  4. Now you're an undertaker?! xoxo

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